People who use porn wonder, "'How... can something that isn't a drug,
isn't an extra-marital affair, isn't actually sex with someone else,
cause such devastating problems as divorce, getting fired, and not being
able to get sexually aroused by a real live partner.'
"The truth
is, using pornography can make you go blind-- blind to the power and
control it can eventually have over your life. Though we might stare
intensely at it, we don't see, often can't see see, how and why
it is so powerful. Did you know that porn can actually rewire your
brain? That's one reason why some people who use porn become
preoccupied with sex, develop problematic sexual desires, and experience
sexual functioning problems. And if your brain has been changed, it
can be difficult to see clearly exactly what is happening and how it's
affecting your life.
"Porn is an extremely alluring and compelling
'product,' capable of delivering sexual pleasure while at the same time
setting one up for the great pain. Porn is like other controlled
substances, such as alcohol and cigarettes, that promise good times,
sometimes deliver them, but can end up causing much more damage than
pleasure. And unlike booze and tobacco, no one warns us of the
potential side effects." - Wendy Maltz, LCSW, DST and Larry Maltz, LCSW
in The Porn Trap
Porn can change your brain. Porn can
become an addiction to the user. I work with addicts, spouses and their
families everyday whose lives are being severely affected by
pornography. Devastated, in fact, nearly in every area of their lives
are having side effects.
Renee Madison, MA, LPC, CSAT is a
licensed counselor in Colorado. She can be reached for appointments at
303-257-7623 or 970-324-6928
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